Photo: Harry Carr for WSJ. MagazineJoe Alwynis continuing to keep his relationship cards close to his chest.In a new interview forWSJ. Magazine’s May issue, on newsstands April 30, theConversations with Friendsstar, who has been datingTaylor Swiftsince 2016, was asked aboutengagementrumors that have been swirling.“If I had a pound for every time I think I’ve been told I’ve been engaged, then I’d have a lot of pound coins,” quipped the English actor, 31.“I mean, the truth is, if the answer was yes, I wouldn’t say, and if the answer was no, I wouldn’t say,” he added of whether he was set to walk down the aisle with Swift, 32.Never miss a story — sign up forPEOPLE’s free daily newsletterto stay up-to-date on the best of what PEOPLE has to offer, from juicy celebrity news to compelling human-interest stories.Taylor Swift (L); Joe Alwyn.Steven Ferdman/Getty Images; Keith/Getty ImagesOf his decision to beprivate about his personal life, Alwyn told the magazine, “We live in a culture that people expect so much to be given.“For more on Joe Alwyn, listen below to our daily podcast PEOPLE Every Day.“So that if you’re not posting all the time about what you’re doing, how you’re spending a day or how you made a breakfast, does that make you a recluse?” he mused of social media.Harry Carr for WSJ. MagazineTheHarrietactor admitted toWSJ. that while he’d “like to feel slightly less guarded sometimes in interviews or in whatever kind of interactions,” his attitude is “just a knee-jerk response to the culture we live in.““If you give it to them, it just opens the door,” Alwyn said.RELATED VIDEO:Taylor SwiftIsn’t Afraid to Speak Her Mind — and Boyfriend Joe Alwyn Is Fully Supportive: SourceSwift began dating Alwyn in 2016, and a source previously told PEOPLE that she"is very happy” in their relationship. “He is her rock. Their relationship is mature and wonderful,” the insider added.In a conversation withEllepublished last week, theBoy Erasedactor also explained the reasoning behind keeping details of his love life under wraps.“It’s not really [because I] want to be guarded and private, it’s more a response to something else,” Alwyn told the outlet.“We live in a culture that is so increasingly intrusive … the more you give — and frankly, even if you don’t give it —something will be taken,” he said.

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Joe Alwyn in WSJ Magazine

Joe Alwynis continuing to keep his relationship cards close to his chest.In a new interview forWSJ. Magazine’s May issue, on newsstands April 30, theConversations with Friendsstar, who has been datingTaylor Swiftsince 2016, was asked aboutengagementrumors that have been swirling.“If I had a pound for every time I think I’ve been told I’ve been engaged, then I’d have a lot of pound coins,” quipped the English actor, 31.“I mean, the truth is, if the answer was yes, I wouldn’t say, and if the answer was no, I wouldn’t say,” he added of whether he was set to walk down the aisle with Swift, 32.Never miss a story — sign up forPEOPLE’s free daily newsletterto stay up-to-date on the best of what PEOPLE has to offer, from juicy celebrity news to compelling human-interest stories.Taylor Swift (L); Joe Alwyn.Steven Ferdman/Getty Images; Keith/Getty ImagesOf his decision to beprivate about his personal life, Alwyn told the magazine, “We live in a culture that people expect so much to be given.“For more on Joe Alwyn, listen below to our daily podcast PEOPLE Every Day.“So that if you’re not posting all the time about what you’re doing, how you’re spending a day or how you made a breakfast, does that make you a recluse?” he mused of social media.Harry Carr for WSJ. MagazineTheHarrietactor admitted toWSJ. that while he’d “like to feel slightly less guarded sometimes in interviews or in whatever kind of interactions,” his attitude is “just a knee-jerk response to the culture we live in.““If you give it to them, it just opens the door,” Alwyn said.RELATED VIDEO:Taylor SwiftIsn’t Afraid to Speak Her Mind — and Boyfriend Joe Alwyn Is Fully Supportive: SourceSwift began dating Alwyn in 2016, and a source previously told PEOPLE that she"is very happy” in their relationship. “He is her rock. Their relationship is mature and wonderful,” the insider added.In a conversation withEllepublished last week, theBoy Erasedactor also explained the reasoning behind keeping details of his love life under wraps.“It’s not really [because I] want to be guarded and private, it’s more a response to something else,” Alwyn told the outlet.“We live in a culture that is so increasingly intrusive … the more you give — and frankly, even if you don’t give it —something will be taken,” he said.

Joe Alwynis continuing to keep his relationship cards close to his chest.

In a new interview forWSJ. Magazine’s May issue, on newsstands April 30, theConversations with Friendsstar, who has been datingTaylor Swiftsince 2016, was asked aboutengagementrumors that have been swirling.

“If I had a pound for every time I think I’ve been told I’ve been engaged, then I’d have a lot of pound coins,” quipped the English actor, 31.

“I mean, the truth is, if the answer was yes, I wouldn’t say, and if the answer was no, I wouldn’t say,” he added of whether he was set to walk down the aisle with Swift, 32.

Never miss a story — sign up forPEOPLE’s free daily newsletterto stay up-to-date on the best of what PEOPLE has to offer, from juicy celebrity news to compelling human-interest stories.

Taylor Swift (L); Joe Alwyn.Steven Ferdman/Getty Images; Keith/Getty Images

Taylor Swift, Joe Alwyn

Of his decision to beprivate about his personal life, Alwyn told the magazine, “We live in a culture that people expect so much to be given.”

For more on Joe Alwyn, listen below to our daily podcast PEOPLE Every Day.

“So that if you’re not posting all the time about what you’re doing, how you’re spending a day or how you made a breakfast, does that make you a recluse?” he mused of social media.

Harry Carr for WSJ. Magazine

Joe Alwyn in WSJ Magazine

TheHarrietactor admitted toWSJ. that while he’d “like to feel slightly less guarded sometimes in interviews or in whatever kind of interactions,” his attitude is “just a knee-jerk response to the culture we live in.”

“If you give it to them, it just opens the door,” Alwyn said.

RELATED VIDEO:Taylor SwiftIsn’t Afraid to Speak Her Mind — and Boyfriend Joe Alwyn Is Fully Supportive: Source

Swift began dating Alwyn in 2016, and a source previously told PEOPLE that she"is very happy” in their relationship. “He is her rock. Their relationship is mature and wonderful,” the insider added.

In a conversation withEllepublished last week, theBoy Erasedactor also explained the reasoning behind keeping details of his love life under wraps.

“It’s not really [because I] want to be guarded and private, it’s more a response to something else,” Alwyn told the outlet.

“We live in a culture that is so increasingly intrusive … the more you give — and frankly, even if you don’t give it —something will be taken,” he said.

source: people.com