Kate Middletongreets everyone with a “big hug and kiss,” according to a friend.

“Kate’s a big hugger,” the friend says. “She is warm and friendly and greets everyone with a big hug and kiss. It comes naturally to her to be like that.”

Recalling thefirst time that Meghan met Kate, the Duchess of Sussex said on the docuseries that she was “in ripped jeans and barefoot” whenPrince Williamand Kate came over for dinner.

“Like I was a hugger, always been a hugger,” Meghan said. “I didn’t realize that that is really jarring for a lot of Brits.”

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She added, “I guess I’d start to understand very quickly that the formality on the outside, carried through on the inside. There is a forward-facing way of being and then you close the door and you relax now. But that formality carries over on both sides. And that was surprising to me.”

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Despite asurprise reunionbetween the brothers and their wives followingQueen Elizabeth’s death in September, whenPrince Harryand Meghan joinedPrince Williamand Kate toview tributes to the monarchoutside Windsor Castle, the relationship between the brothers remains strained.

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“It will take a long time before there is harmony between the brothers,” says a source close to the royal household. “There is a lot of anger there.”

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Prince Harry, 38, also claimed that he and Meghan, 41, were treated differently than Prince William and Kate, both 40, in atrailerfor the additional three episodes of the Netflix series, coming to the streaming service on Thursday.

“They were happy to lie to protect my brother,” Harry said. “They were never willing to tell the truth to protect us.”

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However, some believe that there is a chance forPrince HarryandPrince Williamto patch up their relationship.

“There is always a way for reconciliation if both sides want it,” says royal biographer Ingrid Seward.

source: people.com